Disability etiquette videos typically instruct normies on how to best engage with those of us who have disabilities, who are different. This approach, however, makes it feel like we — the people with disabilities — are the problem. It suggests we’re the thing to DEAL with, the thing to navigate, the problem that has to be solved. It’s as though we are so weird and alien that we fall beyond the realm of standard rules of human decency, respect and consideration, and therefore must cr